Have you ever struggled to apologise to someone? If so, why?

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IELTS Speaking tip

Avoid one-word answers; elaborate on your responses.

Vocabulary

  • struggle
  • apologise
  • reason
  • communication
  • emotion
  • relationship
  • feelings
  • regret
  • sincerity
  • forgiveness
  • conflict
  • misunderstanding
  • situation
  • resolution
  • accountability

Sample Answer

Indeed, I have encountered challenges when it comes to offering a sincere apology. One notable instance was when I had a misunderstanding with a close friend over a trivial matter that spiraled into a significant rift. I found it difficult to apologize initially because I felt a profound sense of pride and a desire to defend my perspective. Apologizing would have meant admitting that I was wrong, which was a daunting prospect for me. Moreover, I grappled with the fear of vulnerability associated with an apology—acknowledging my failings would require me to expose my emotional self. Ultimately, I realized that a genuine apology could strengthen our relationship by fostering trust and understanding, prompting me to confront my reservations and reach out, illustrating the intricacies of human interaction where ego and empathy often clash.

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